Bard Dad Wisdom #27: Success is going from failure to failure without losing your enthusiasm.

Life is a series of successes and failures.

“Remember, son, success is going from failure to failure without losing your enthusiasm. And if you ever find yourself succeeding too much, just remember, there’s always room to fail spectacularly at something like interpretive dance or yodeling. Keeps you humble.” -BardDad

The Joyful Journey of Failure: Why Enthusiasm is Your Best Compass

In the grand adventure of life, success isn’t a destination; it’s more like a quirky road trip where every wrong turn, breakdown, or unexpected detour is just part of the journey. Failing is as important as succeeding, in fact, arguable more important, especially if you can learn from your mistakes. I believe you should tell your children that, “Success is going from failure to failure without losing your enthusiasm.” Let’s unpack why this advice isn’t just funny, but fundamentally true.

Grand Adventure of Living

In the grand adventure of life, success isn’t a destination; it’s more like a quirky road trip where every wrong turn, breakdown, or unexpected detour is just part of the journey. As a wise, albeit humorously inclined, father might tell his son, “Success is going from failure to failure without losing your enthusiasm.” Let’s unpack why this advice isn’t just funny, but fundamentally true.

  • The Fumble Forward Technique: Where every fumble is just setting you up for a fantastic touchdown dance
    • Imagine life as a video game. Each time you fail a level, you don’t throw away the console; you learn, you laugh at your missteps, and you try again with newfound knowledge. Here’s why enthusiasm in the face of failure matters:
      • Blunder Blasters—Every failure is like a pop quiz from life. It shows you what doesn’t work, pushing you closer to what does. Keeping your enthusiasm means you’re eager to learn, not defeated by the lesson. Equipping you with the knowledge to shoot down future mistakes with the precision of a seasoned gamer.
      • Knockdown Kung Fu—If you treat each failure as a mere bump on the road, you build resilience. Like a rubber ball, the harder life throws you down, the higher you can bounce back if you maintain your enthusiasm. Learn how to take hits like a pro wrestler – dramatic, entertaining, and always ready for the next round.
Always be looking for the next pivot
  • The Enthusiasm Advantage, AKA: The Fervor Factor — It’s like the X factor, but for people who actually enjoy what they’re doing.
    • Enthusiasm isn’t just about being chipper in the face of adversity; it’s about maintaining a zest for the journey:
      • Magnet for Mojo—Because good vibes stick to you like metal to a magnet. Enthusiasm is contagious. When you approach life’s challenges with a smile and a can-do attitude, you not only lift your spirits but also those around you. People are drawn to enthusiasm, which can open doors to opportunities.
      • Stubborn Genius—Because giving up is for those who didn’t invent the light bulb. I call it Innovation through persistence: Many of the world’s greatest inventions came after countless failures. Enthusiasm fuels persistence, and persistence breeds innovation. Think of Edison and his light bulb; it wasn’t his first attempt that succeeded, but his enthusiasm never waned. You hear this one over and over, “The reason I succeeded is that I never gave up, even when others told me to.”
  • The Art of Redefining Success, AKA: Triumph Tweaking Because sometimes success just needs a little adjustment.
    • If success is about moving from one failure to the next with undiminished enthusiasm, then perhaps we need to redefine what success looks like:
      • Flourish Frenzy — Going wild with growth in the jungle of underachievers. Instead of seeing success as a static achievement, view it as growth. Each failure is a growth spurt, sometimes painful, but always necessary.
      • Milestone Mardi Gras — Masks and beads for every minor achievement. Enjoy the ride. If you’re only focused on the destination, you miss out on the scenery, the side quests, and the character development that happens along the way. Enthusiasm for the process makes every step worthwhile. But remember to take a moment to enjoy and celebrate your success along the way.

So, as you navigate through life’s ups and downs, remember that your enthusiasm is your best gear. Your best tool in your toolbox. Your best weapon against adversity. It’s what turns the journey of failures into a tale of success. Keep failing forward, keep laughing at the stumbles, like a Will Ferrell in Anchorman, oblivious to his mistakes but somehow succeeding. And keep that spark alive. Because in the end, the man who enjoys walking will walk much further than the man who merely wishes to reach the destination. And remember, if you ever feel like you’re losing your way or your enthusiasm, just think of life as the universe’s way of keeping things interesting. After all, who wants a boring, straight road when you can have an adventurous path full of twists, turns, and the occasional spectacular fail? Keep your spirits high, your failures many, and your enthusiasm endless. Here’s to failing with flair!

Just a little boy from Ireland, who became a staunch American while raising three boys, creating three companies, and being married for 30 years